Why the word friends does occupy?

"A real friend is hard to find,

Difficult to leave,

And impossible to forget."

I read it somewhere. These Lines seem so good. But do we get a real friend in our life? I read many blogs written on the topic “friends”. Some worship their friends or some are hurt by them. The purity, the charm of having friends seems vanishing now days. I don’t know I always feel unable to make everyone pleased. And logically it’s not possible too. But why we are not happy with our lives and have numerous questions about life, about friends, their behavior and so on?

Do you think we need friends in our life? If you will ask me then maybe I will answer no. We need friends for our own amusement. Or simply can say that we are all social animal can’t stay alone without friends in this world. Having more and more friends is a kind of propensity of humans.  Before some days ago one of my friends said “hey you are so rude and selfish”, I accepted. May be I m rude for her. But that’s me who knows inside that I m not. If you are having some good friends then they can make your life. But if you are having a pronging group and not aware about them then be ready to face the consequences.

 Let’s talk about this virtual world. Now days we social animals have gotten a new toy for having fun and chuckling known as internet. Various sites are working as lover points. Boys need not to stand on roadside for getting a girl. They can easily flirt using any of these sites.  After mushrooming uncountable professional colleges, the internet users in India are increasing by leaps and bounds.

Now using Facebook is the most  favorite time pass of my mumma. The day she learnt using facebook ,she has become a facebook addict. She daily does chatting on facebook. It’s a better and secure place to do gossiping and the most important she has to upload her new pictures otherwise how her neighbors will know about her new saari and jewelry.

 And what about we youth?  

We love to make fool others. And what would be the better place than internet. We are the outmost in using net. Instead of meeting our friends or playing outdoor games we love playing online, we waste our valuable time in chatting. As a result cyber crime looks like a second form of terrorism.

Now I again come where I started. Do we need friends?? Having friends is all about wasting your time. The friends who claim to be your best friend would be standing so far when you will really need them. And you are the only one who needs to face your situations not your friends or your family. But yeah they may come to console you for some time not always and virtual world is just like a sweet poison which is bringing us far away from reality, our goals, dreams, and so far away from our own genuine existence in this world.