JEEV DAAMAAD

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Bada bhayankar jeev hai is jag me DAAMAD ,

CHoos Choos kar Saas Sasur ko Kar deta barbaad,

Fir Bhi Trapti hoti nai DAaMad hai letter box

Was just a quotation I read somewhere. How much true it is? Why we need to get married? Just to have a husband or a wife.. I was pondered. You are 5 feet 5 inch but can not accept a girl who is 5 feet 1 inch. When it comes to marriage, a girl becomes like a show peace. I had a sentence by a guy who said I don’t want a bahin ji type girl. You are a bit fat.

Very funny it becomes when a person who is a B.Tech earning 22 lacks/annul asks what is your date of birth time and place? How would I be able to search a better partner? I am damn horrified. This ring is really horrifying me.

Why we are living in the world of falsehood?

Kahne ko ye qualified hai,

Dikhne me bahut modern hai,

Par q ye dimag se paidal hai?

Khud ko matured samjhte hai,

Par apne ego k gulaam hai,

Demand karte hai modern ladki,

But broad mindedness ki hai kadki….

Just for the sake of Muslim heritage…

It’s been really a very long time since I wrote any blog.. First of all I would like to wish you all Merry Christmas, may Jesus Christ fulfill all your dreams.   I am really very sorry for not reading your blogs..Yesterday after a long time when I opened my blog page there was a comment by Jyoti who inquired about new blog.. so since yesterday I was thinking about what I should write. And here I am. It may look like that am against Muslim culture. I don’t say that detraction is there only in Muslim culture. It is everywhere in all the countries and in all the religions.  I am not writing this post to hurt anyone. If I do then please forgave me.

Before 2 hours ago I was watching Pakistan reporter ( a serial which is shown on DD1) . In which they were showing some acid victim women. Now fortunately Anti-Women Practices Act 2011, which was authored by MNA Dr.donya aziz have been passed by Pakistani senate. Whoever causes hurt by corrosive substance shall be punished with imprisonment for life or imprisonment of either description which shall not be less than fourteen years with a minimum fine of Rs1 million.”

The bill has been passed and senators are expressing their gratitude towards PM and parliament.

Here, I am not going to talk about Pakistan’s women only. I am going to talk about only on Muslim’s inheritance, Muslim’s rivayats and their Hukmmaran’s whether it is in India, Pakistan or Saudi Arab. First start with Chehlum Joloos , During a journey I got a chance to see their Mohrram joloos at a stone’s throw . I was shocked when I saw 4,5 ,7 ,years old  (Including elders) children were beating themselves bitterly. I can’t understand, what is the meaning of doing such kind of a death dance tandav? And what is the need to involve small children? According to me it will really have a very bad impact on their innocent mindset.  Now talk about Bakri Eid.. does Allah say , Oh my son! Give me the blood of a goat, cow or buffalo then I shall be very happy. No .Actually god will become really sad that we are killing his innocent creatures. They have also the same soul which we have inside in our body.

Why a women is just a sole control of a man In Islam inheritance. Hajrat Mohammad allowed marrying more than one woman. But it was the demand of situation at that time. Why it is still in the present scenario..In Saudi Arab women even had no right to vote before 6 months ago. Why there are most of rules are made for women only why not for men? Men can go in a mosque but women are strictly prohibited .does a woman has no right to pray? Why a Muslim woman suffers the most. Whether they are acid victims, or it is small girl child which is forced to marry   ,  Is this holy Jehad? Indian Government really did very well for Polio Abhiyan . But still muslims women are afraid of bringing their children on polio booth. It seems so funny when they say we don’t want our child die due to polio drops. News paper portrayed it beautifully but the root reason is their illiteracy.. What if a girl is talking to a boy in Pakistani village ? She would be summoned death by local panchyat. Here are the women who suffered, their condition is really pathetic.. Can a bundle of 10 lackh   cure their wounds? 

Can even a single man dare to marry those horrible faces?

यूँही बस की खिड़की से झांकते हुए,just like that while traveling

यूँही सफ़र करते हुए ,
just like that while traveling 

बस की खिड़की से झांकते हुए,
peeping outside from the window 

मैंने  देखा,
i saw

उन बूढी  मुरझाई आखों को,
those faded old eyes

पके हुए बालों को एक सुर्ख लाल टोपी से ढके,
those gray hair hidden by a dark red cap,

एक सफ़ेद मैले कुचैले कुरते पजामे  में ढके ,
wearing a white dirty kurta and pajama,

उस  ढलते बदन की झुकी हुई कमर को...
and  the bent waist of an old body.....

यूँही सफ़र करते हुए ,
just like that while traveling 

बस की खिड़की से झांकते हुए,
peeping outside from the window
मैंने  देखा,
i saw,

चारे से लदे उस  ट्रेक्टर को  ,
a tractor filled with bait,

उम्र  दराज  ट्राली चालक की पैनी  नजर पड़ने पे ,
and being  stared by an old driver ,

अपने पति से अट्टहास  करते चार फुट घुघंट काढ़े,
chuckling with her   husband,

उस  सकुचाती शर्माती नवविवहिता को,
i saw a shied newly bride....
......

यूँही सफ़र करते हुए,
just like that while traveling

बस की खिड़की से झांकते हुए,
peeping outside from the window

मैंने  देखा,
i saw,

उन बैल गाड़ियों के  झुण्ड को ,
a group of some bullock carts,

उन पर तने तम्बुओं से झांकते  उछलते कूदते बच्चे,
jumping children inside the taints over it, 

जो की लम्बे सफ़र पे निकले  थे अपने अपने घरों से,
who came out from their homes for a long journey 

गुरु पूर्णिमा मेले में गंगा स्नान को.......
because they had to go to fair 

यूँही सफ़र करते हुए ,
just like that while traveling

बस की खिड़की से झांकते हुए,
 peeping outside from the window

मैंने  देखा,
i saw

बन्दर को गोद  में लिए उस औरत को,
i saw a lady who had a monkey in her lap,

ट्रेफिक सिग्नल और उस पर रुकने वाले गाड़ी वाहक ,
traffic signal and all the drivers ,

बसों में बैठे स्कूली बच्चे या रोड पे चलने वाला आदम,
children sitting in their school's bus or a common pedestrian,  

उन सबसे  भीख मांगने  की मज़बूरी को.....
she was coerced to beg to those all.....

  

A short note

Hello friends.

It has been a long time since I interacted with you. I am really very sorry which I couldn’t go through your precious blogs…Today I am going to talk all foolish. If you can tolerate my stupidity then only proceed.

What made me to write this was a post written by Shubhrashish Sir. Three words God,Soul and a human being..When I start thinking about it I never get any conclusion. It always leaves me restless. One night I was just thinking this and  many foolish thoughts and queries were coming into my mind.

Firstly let’s talk about human and humanity. Today we are living in 21^st century. We are educated. We keep degrees having the level of IIT,IIM and including many other big names. IIM, where the brightest mind of our country gain knowledge. In Such a college a girl commits suicide because her ex boyfriend poked her. And after her death he celebrates his freedom. Is the humanity level of the students of an institute, called IIM is so cheap. We keep knowledge. We have become the slaves of technology. We are achieving impossible and gaining knowledge but at the same time we have degraded our humanity too. If I talk about convent school’s students, many of them show their best face in front of you but as you vanish in front of their eyes you won’t be able to imagine the way they will talk about you. This is the present scenario of our education system. Still if my father meets his teachers then he touches their feet. And now the top students of my class talk about them calling their names in a cheap way. They comment about their dresses and many other things. And a teacher Who have been a lecturer in BHU was smoking outside at the gate of my college today. What we are going to teach our children, such types of buttering, or cheap values?

Now talk about soul

Suppose if you were a dragon or a snake. How your life would have been then?

What would happen to our soul after our death? Do you believe in Rebirth? How does a soul or baby feel inside the mother’s womb? How would you feel if you become a crow in your next birth? We all know that we have to die then why do we study? Next birth me to fir se A B C D se suru karna hi padega ;) ..Do ghosts really exist in this world? And who become ghosts? our souls or something else. My house is near a crematorium. My neighbors sometimes talk about ghosts. Some people hear strange voices. They boast about their experiences. I must admit I am a big coward still I can’t sleep alone in a room. My granny used to tell me her stories and real experiences with ghosts. She always claims that she has talked to ghosts. Why do we exist in this universe? What is the main purpose of our life? And many questions are there.

The list of my stupid questions is too long.  And I never get answers of my questions. Science doesn’t believe in Rebirth.  But according to our Hindu culture we believe in rebirth. Some people have stories about their last birth and their life. Many Bollywood movies based on the rebirth concept were super duper hit.

At last would like to talk about god.

I am always confused whether to believe that god exist or not. IF you say God has created this world. Then science will say these were the particles and environmental conditions.

If you worship a statue then no need to do anything. Just sit in front of that and pray. And god will give you what you wish to have isn’t. No ,what I believe is that God is your own will power. It’s you who do a work. God never comes to help you in your work. It’s your optimism which makes your goals fulfilled. God is there inside you. It’s you who is the part of god.

Retouching those Delighting moments

 I miss putting that bindia a bit above on your forehead,

Falling in dreams, polishing  red color nail print on your nails,

Memorizing your delighted hands after beautifying by nail print,

Again I want to feel those dally mornings,

Every forenoon I woke up after having a kiss on my forehead,

 But averse the nature’s law I request you to come back………………

I miss that gentle move of your hand,on my stomach after having food,

And saying genially, “now my guddo is not  hungry more ,

Alas you can’t recognize but your guddo is enough gallant now,

She can take deep slumber even not within anybody,

Still I fail to  hug  your big stomach on all my little hands,

Averse the law of nature I tend to invite you on this Diwali……………

Like before in this season also grandpa has put lights in the balcony,

Alas! you are no more to ask him not to spend all the coins only on candles and lightings,

He has accepted your challenge of cooking food for at least once in life,

Remembering your jovial face I miss your twinkling eyes

Averse the law of nature I invite you to meet me once…………..

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while walking someday

Either in the nights or a day,

Searching me in a dark gloomy night,

Flumping into rivers from a hill’s height,

Rolling tears down,

Peeping through a pound,

Covering thousands of miles,

 Counting stars in the nights,

Tautologizing your words,

Waiting for your Nereid….

Arrivals of morn,

Soughs of winds,

Regrets in your heart,

Whispers full of tart,

Will then remind you,

The instants full of blue.

  

Token of love by Gowthami and Madhulika

It was a big surprise when i read  a  comment by Gowthami Nandigala . My blog was listed for one lovely blogger award. thank you so much Gowthami.

And i am grateful to Madhulika too. Who again gave me this award.  

Angels lift us to our feet when our wings have
trouble remembering how to fly

 you’ve been an angel
Such support, an aide, a crutch
A friend, not just in fair weather but foul
And I’m grateful ever so much(written by unknown)

According to the awards rules i had to share some facts about me. which are .......

  Share 7 random Things about you: 1- I am always confused. Taking decision is alz a tough task for me.

2- I love jumping on the floor without seeing by anyone.

3- My secret corner –I love taking funny shots when people sleep.  It’s amazing to look their yawning faces he he.

4-I look like a studious girl. But I am totally different I never put my head into my books.

5-I love playing with children. I am always popular among those.

6- Love reading can read anything except my syllabus.

7- I am happy go lucky gal but  always need a lot of free time which I can spend alone.

 My Favorite song: masti bhare man ki bholi si aasha

What piss me off: Double standards, liars, show off.

Biggest fear: Being hated by anyone

Best Feature: My innocence and charming behavior. 

here's  the list of the some amazing follow bloggers  whom i always love visiting again and again.. would like to forward this award to..

EMBODYING EMOTIONS one of my favorite  blog filled with literary musings.

I Are My world   very philosophical

Jidhu Jose Photography

lovely shots

thnx a ton. cheers!!!

Don't dare to follow me <'...'>

It was a rainy Tuesday when I and Jidhu were doing a casual chat. Suddenly I asked him a question..

Me -Bro tell me how can we increase the number of followers?

Jidhu- Not a big deal just read them n follow. Wait a while they will come back to u.

Me- But I do follow them most of the time I comment on their posts too. But do u know most of them don’t come back L

Jidhu- Aaw. That’s so sweet of you. Wait some time slowly they will come back.

And after it I left this conversation.

Today I woke up at early 6 a.m. in the morning. It was stupid me who was still thinking about increasing the number of followers.. I did brush, went for shower, I was doing that all very fast because I had to leave for my college. But.. Usually as my sisters says to me, “Di you are very lucky. I never see u studying hard. But still get passed with a considerable result. How could you?” Guess what it started raining. And god saved me when my Maa asked me not to go to college. Yeahhhhh.. I was waiting for that… lovely daughter having a lovely mom. I love you Maa.

And now I had nothing to worry about. I paired myself with my best companion of course with my lappy. Now I made up my mind for the most awaited vision that was to increase the list of my followers.  Within seconds I was looking my favorite blog page “Khoj The Search. ..” 139 followers he is having.. hmm I am jealous with you Mr. Shubhrasish sir. If I was a hacker I have been hacked your blog page. And after that I would have been changed the name of the owner. How stupid  you are Anu what's the crap you are thinking? Suppose if you hack his blog page then also he is very popular and people would become aware about it very soon. So you should hack his mind. Lol…

Lets open the blogs and follow the people who have already stopped by on his blog. One, two, three, four, five,…….list of blog pages became very large. Now I am reading fifth one. It’s a poem simple, sweet and the most important not too much lengthy to read. Thank god. Now I am going to pop up into the 7^th one. Oh wow it’s a photo blog. I love these photo blog. Just look there photographs and appreciate. Your work finishes here.  Wait a minute now it’s your turn Mr. 8rth one. You are having 243 followers L I am damn jealous now. I am not going to follow you I don’t think you will read me back. Let’s go ahead. Oh wow it’s a traveler’s blog. Not much to read just look the photographs posted by the blogger.  Now I turned to 9^th one. Oh my god it’s too much lengthy. I can’t read it thoroughly first lets read comments. Oh it’s about our country, posted for the occasion of 15^th august. Don’t get your head too much involved with some serious issues... Just say “it was nice.” Oh I have done now. I have started following 30 new bloggers within two hours...

Let’s wait and watch that how many of them come back…

Its 1:30pm now let’s have a look how many of them came back and became my followers. Yes yes now I am having a list increased by 6 numbers of followers. But I started following 30 new bloggers. They just came and had a look of my blogger page that’s it. 

These were just my mood swings which I have tried to write. I had no intention to hurt anyone. I m really very thankful to Madhulika ,Jyoti for dropping there valuable comments and others who came back and followed me .. Thanks a ton friends...Hope we shall share so many things in future. Keep smiling I love all my followers These images and this post is dedicated to you..

cheers!!

DESH MERA RANGREJIYA BABU

One more day to go and like always we shall celebrate our Independence Day. Our leaders will deliver their precious views about the current conditions, will show their GDP growth records and so on and will try to satisfy the present scenario.

Here I am not going to criticize our government. Because government is actually spending money rather I would say wasting the money on some programs like MID DAY MEAL. Here in U.P. situations are disastrous. All the development programs are mainly running by PRADHANS in villages. Who are given a huge amount of money so that they can develop their village and can give a better life style to our rural Indian citizens.

For showing good records registers are fully well maintained. Everything would be all correct for the sake of any type of investigation. Hardly 20 or 25 students mention their presence in such primary schools. I have seen in front of my own eyes if two children are quarreling with each other and one of them goes to his teacher and says he is beating me or fighting with me. Teachers pardon please not teachers(mostly teachers are alz absent) I should say teacher scolds him and says go and do ur work don’t dare to disturb me again. And the most funny thing of the government teachers is that they don’t join their duty. They hire unemployed people who can go in those rural areas and teach those students. Just because they are paid enough and don’t want to waste their time instead of going there they prefer to start their own business or other stuffs. Parents are unhappy with such kind of primary schools. “In rural India, just 28 per cent of grade 3 students could subtract two-digit numbers and only a third could tell the time,"

Now I come on Mid Day Meal. For our poor children government spends more than one lackh rupees per month only for one village. The mid meal which is provided has a very poor quality. Our government is spending huge amount of money but still only 15% of Indians reach high schools only 7% complete their graduate 25% of teaching jobs are vacant, 52% college professors are lacking in having masters or P.H.D. In our country 9 or less girls take birth on 10 boys. Out of the total 759 million illiterate adults in the world, India still has the highest number.

Now let’s discuss the causes behind it. First the money is not utilized properly by the powered civil citizens or greedy Pradhans of villages. "Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan" is a noble thought to educate the Indian children. Other programs like Aganwadi can also help to develop our nation incredibly. But here also corruption takes place. Supervisors demand 1 thousand rupees per Aaganawadi Karkatri as a bribe. An aaganwadi is paid only 1700r.s. per month. When she will give 1000 r.s. to supervisor then what will go in her pocket. Nothing. So she sells the food, and grains which is provided for the betterment of the health of children. And earns little amount of money for her own expenditure. Mostly newly born children are low weighted in our country. We have numerous awesome programs and ideas. Government is also spending.

But we always lack in implementing those programs in a proper way and without corruption. So lets have an oath that on this Independence day if we see any kind of illegal acts or kind of corruption we shall rise our voice. Then only we can have better India to survive next generation. .. Jai Hind

References

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Education_in_India

http://www.deccanherald.com/content/47788/india-still-home-largest-illiterate.html